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Commercial real estate transactions require negotiation. Duh! But, candidly, the back and forth is my least favorite part of a deal.

Many consider the volleying a sport — one that must be won or lost. Skillful negotiators realize in order for there to be a successful outcome both parties must win. I’ve witnessed sellers, down to their dying breath, decide they’d rather give the building back to the bank rather than conclude a transaction with an overzealous buyer.

Conversely, I’ve seen buyers — whose business growth depends on buying a building — walk away due to a minute tweak in the terms. The worst is a stand-off. Akin to heads-of-state squared up in an intense disagreement, the mantra of “he who first blinks loses” is repeated. As commercial real estate professionals, we find ourselves between the warring factions, struggling to find common ground.

If your negotiations are going nowhere fast, what can be done? Below are some suggestions.

The impasse

It is the price? Or perhaps it’s the terms, such as the length of escrow or deposit structure. Maybe your issue is more esoteric, such as your seller has the impression the buyer can’t perform and therefore is holding firm. If the conversations have been many rounds — sometimes a party gets weary — enough already! Regardless – the solution is often contained in the reason for the roadblock.

What’s at stake

The owner I referenced above had to sell or the bank was going to foreclose. However, he had to salvage something, even if it was his dignity. Buyers came along sensing a fire sale! What the buyers failed to recognize was that at a point, the seller would simply fold and allow the lender to take the premises, consequences be damned.

Just when you believe a seller has no room to maneuver, in fact, he does. Never underestimate a desperate seller.


Too often a buyer will confuse his operational goals with his purchase criteria. Early in the process, it’s good to gain an understanding of the buyer’s motivation for the purchase. If the buy will allow him to hire more folks, generate more sales, carry more inventory, accommodate new machinery, or manufacture a new line of products – there is an economic motivation.

If negotiations reach a standstill, we review the benefit and downside. Sometimes that difference in price becomes moot in light of the increase in business revenue – or loss if he doesn’t move forward.

Non-monetary solutions

Occasionally, parties will agree on price but stall for other reasons.

Most common would be a closing date. You see, some sellers benefit from a quick conclusion while others would prefer to postpone the final bell. Sometimes a buyer requires a bit more time to process a loan or bridge a lease obligation. So hypothetically, a seller wants finality in 60 days but the buyer is adamant about 90. Maybe the buyer can beef up his deposit in return for the extra 30 days.

Time to say goodbye

Once in a while, the best deal is the one you DON’T make. I’ve found if transactions are meant to be – motivations are aligned and transparent negotiations take place — a rhythm evolves between the parties. It’s a beautiful thing! However, if you find yourself working diligently to resolve minutiae, maybe the stars won’t align.

Time to crank up that search for another building.

Allen C. Buchanan, SIOR, is a principal with Lee & Associates Commercial Real Estate Services in Orange. He can be reached at or 714.564.7104

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